Is Pornography Healthy In Relationships?
In this video blog, psychotherapist Mishiko Flores discusses the complex topic of whether watching pornography in relationships is healthy. The benefits of porn include enhanced arousal and connection, opportunities to explore new sexual ideas, and a safe space for indulging fantasies without real-life implications. However, porn can negatively impact relationships. Some examples are unrealistic expectations and desensitization to real-life sexual arousal. Some people also experience physical desensitization leading to erectile dysfunction and the potential for distrust and jealousy within a relationship.
While some people may benefit from porn, others may face psychological or relational issues due to its consumption. Having open communication between partners regarding porn use is important. Speaking to a couples therapist can be a great place to explore the desires and boundaries you and your partner have. Use your shared values with your partner to navigate porn use in a way that maintains and healthy and connected relationship.
Learn more about how to talk about sex with your partner.
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